Author Archive: hoardnot

The Hell With New Years Resolutions !


You made a few resolutions about cleaning up and de-cluttering. It was difficult and you had the best intentions however, being the people that we are it’s not easy. Screw it. Don’t give it another thought. Today is a new day and anything you wanted to do in January you can start today. Lets start …

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Easy ? No !


  Easy isn’t what it’s going to be. Fun?  Maybe. You knew that being by yourself was going to be a challenge , so no crying or pouting. Life is too damn short for recriminations. Look, you lost your partner , it’s not fatal. He left you for someone else, divorced you, even died.. There …

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You havent dated in weeks


  You haven’t had a date in weeks. So what. No, I am not nuts. Alone is a good thing sometimes. Being alone can be fun as well as a time to re-evaluate what it is you’re looking for. For now call all your gal pals that you (mistakenly)  left behind for the  last guy …

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No date in sight?


You haven’t had a date in weeks. So what. No, I am not nuts. Alone is a good thing sometimes. Being alone can be fun as well as a time to re-evaluate what it is you’re looking for. For now call all your gal pals that you (mistakenly)  left behind for the  last guy you …

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Starting Ain’t Easy, But its Gotta Get Done


Easy isn’t what it’s going to be. Fun?  Maybe. You knew that being by yourself was going to be a challenge , so no crying or pouting. Life is too damn short for recriminations. Look, you lost your partner , it’s not fatal. He left you for someone else, divorced you, even died.. There is …

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How The Hell Do I do This Again?


You say you can’t?  I say you can. You have read my postings before and know that I repeatedly tell you, yes you can. Dating  again is no different. Did you think you could go back to thinking as you did when you dated back in the day? Update !….Things have changed since your last …

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Now What Do I Do?


Now What Do I Do?.

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Now What Do I Do?


You have no idea where to start do you? What the hell are you going to do now that your single? Throw a party?  Hmmmmm, that’s an idea…Not. What you can do is get the hell out of the pity party..Please ! This doesn’t do you a damn  bit of good. Sure , you can …

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ALONE IS NOT TERMINAL


You got a divorce….he walked out….he died…or he left you for someone else. The end is the same. You are now alone and maybe a bit scared of what’s out there for you. Alone is not terminal no matter how painful this time in your life is. Sometimes you need to squeeze that lemon and …

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Its Too Friggin Hard


Too friggin  hard?  Did you really think It would be easy? Stop being a crybaby. OK well that may be a little too harsh. How about grow up. Try and face the challenge. What may have started as just a bit of too much “stuff”  has now grown to such proportions you can’t manage it, …

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